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i feel like discord has kind of replaced the internet. using the internet used to make me feel like i knew what was going on. but now everything's happening in some discord somewhere. whenever i try to use it, i'm just utterly bamboozled by its bizarre UI. i don't know what the hell i'm supposed to click on or do. i don't know what the etiquette is. i click something and now i'm in a voice chat. i try to upload an image and it's too big. there's so many layers of things that push me away from it

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Discord is like. imagine if they took The Computer, a device which, through some miraculous means, has demonstrated the ability to somehow actually cure some people's social anxiety, and instead, made it worse

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you: why won't you use Discord

me: i don't like it

you: look. everyone else uses discord. if you dont like it, just dont use it

me: ok

you: why won't you use discord

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@jk
my favorite part about discord is every now and then i discover that i have been logged out of all devices and have gotten another spam warning

i am sitting on 6 now and i barely use the fucking thing
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@jk
and based on what i'm seeing on bluesky this may be better option as far as "random bullshit automated moderation" goes
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@jk In my surroundings, Discord was the thing of very young people in 2020 (because the schools used it during the Lockdowns) ... they are now all on Whatsapp. 😭
Sometimes, it just helps to wait for a trend to get old. 😉

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@jk must be confusing for people who never used IRC back in the day? I don't find it confusing at all, but the software is... Not great.
It's best for groups who do a bunch of video gaming. It's good for having separate chats about different things. It's a good voice chat option. It's not meta.
But it's definitely not perfect by any means.

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@noodlemaz i actually used IRC a lot, i was a heavy IM user in general. but i think something changed when they made chats persistent. IRC genuinely felt like "show up somewhere and see who's around for a chat" and it was all ephemeral. there was no sense of FOMO really. forums happened at a leisurely pace, and threads allowed people to carve out their own discussions in a kinda ad-hoc way. the discord approach is a weird hybrid that, i think, fails at both. but clearly very few people agree :/

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@jk back in the day I was in like "an irc channel" and "a forum" but now I'm in 800 vertically segmented discords. i don't look at any of them

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@jk i have so far not been able to divine what the intended way of getting someone's profile is, and there are llike 3-4 different dialog-like things that could be called such

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