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She/Her or It/It's, trans to the people who know me. I'm less active here, oh well...
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pocket expert 🔞 [open]

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top surgery (mastectomy), question, :boosts_appreciated:
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okay so after getting a second opinion it seems like my only options are to either wait in waitlists or go abroad to get the procedure done, which sucks Massively for several reasons

however i also know nullshit about getting any trans-related surgeries abroad, and i presume it gets more complicated for people like me who ate stuck between countries, but here goes nothing in my attempt to pursue my true gender

i am asking any transmasc people in the netherlands who had a top surgery abroad (essentially skipping that part of eternal waiting), i want to know as much as possible about getting that done (i.e. costs, what should i prepare for, logistics etc.)

i do not promise to follow through with my plans, especially not when it turns out to be too hard to organize in my current circumstances; however i see a glimmer of hope of retaking my body autonomy and even if it's a faint hallucination i yearn to pursue it or at least estimate the chances of being able to pursue it

relays from partners/friends who were in this situation are okay, but i prioritize transmasc voices in here, if you got no firsthand experience or a trustworthy relay then just boost, as it isn't about you

i can't lie that getting a top surgery moved up higher in my priority list over time, and ideally i wish i could pursue it while everything else is idle in transaction, so that a ko reborn will truly be a new game+ mode and i can embrace my new and more canon accurate flesh suit

i am open this to moving the discussion to an IM like signal if that is more comfortable.

alternatively if someone knows how can i get a top surgery quicker than via gender clinic within the country (if that matters i am 1,5 years on T, legal gender depends on which government you ask; but the dutch govt does recognize me as legally male) that information will also be highly appreciated <3

#lgbt #transmasc #transgender #nederland

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if i told you that this camera features a mode where it not only automates the focus, but also the framing through it's zoomlens to detect a human and perfectly frame a portrait out of it, it would sound like an april's fools. but nope!
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I do not know what's worse: the fact that this exists, the fact it embodies practically everything awful about the camera industry or the fact it's called the "AiBORG"...
https://mikeeckman.com/2025/09/revisiting-the-konica-aiborg-is-it-as-bad-as-i-remember/
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no one:
absolutely no one:

dutch furries on the first of monday at 12:00: WHOOOOO WEEEEE WHOOOOO

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Exactly 3 billion devices run Java. Every time you install Java on your computer some old DVR or something explodes to maintain the balance

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The furries that are complaining that poodling is "uwu ruining the magic", I'm now more tempted than ever to poodle at cons now just to deliberately piss them off lmao

Furcons ain't Disneyland.

Unless you're paying me to fursuit, I'm doing whatever I want with my animal costume.

Stay mad. 😇✨

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@charlotte how about the river gender (running fo a couple of kilometers through eindhoven)?
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"I'm a baaaaaaad dog, ... duh"

Minolta CLE, tmax 100, photo by a friend, developed and edit by me

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For #fursuitFriday have my friend @deetwenty . Go check them out as well, they are a better photographer than I am (but hate it when I say that)!
It's a wolf against a backgroun…
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@charlotte You can also go through italy if you wanna avoid germany but that's a pretty big detour
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Interestingly so much of my energy bill goes to water heating alone there would not be much point to try any of the electricity saving tips mentionned on the suppier's site and all the tips they mention for gas are "shower less" (already not a big showerer according to my water bill) and "heat lower" (i was at the minimum heating where my room would not be filled with humidity for much of the winter)
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Pooltoy blowing up on a plane
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They sure do really overbook these flights these days.

(Me tomorrow on the way to AC)
Art by @BlurTheFur

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@foone mimicry in an ecosystem of mediocrity
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@TeraKaktos how about dicks that are 4.20 inches?
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it's a mystery to everybody

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sudo (MISRA® compliant)

Cooling my PC by compressing files on my server and decompressing them on my PC.

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@niconiconi counterpoint: the computers on board of the spacecraft
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