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if the creator of gender reveal parties has started to be like "yeah maybe don't do that" maybe you shouldn't do that but what do i know i'm just a nonbinary person who's been forced to spend a giant majority of their life defined by a specific gender

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@chirpbirb it also had a very different context from how most people do them

the mother had issues with early miscarriages, the gender reveal party was the first pregnancy she had where the pregnancy reached the point where the gynecologist could determine the genitalia. i think that child is GNC

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